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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can't believe we are on page three of the comments and you are still together. Are you not listening to us?

DUMP HIM NOW!
before we get to page 4.[/quote]

Lol, but +1

He sounds like a little spoiled brat as a pp said. Get rid of him. Even if he agreed to split bills with you, he would be resentful and bitch about it. What are you getting out of this relationship?[/quote]

I love him and if I end it over money, then I am exactly what he says "Just with him for what he can do for me" Would 1/4 of the bills be fair or does it go more by the income of each partner? I know if it were the other way around, this would not have worked for him, me giving very little and banking thousands each month. I said to get a house together but still is 3 of me and 1 of him. [/quote]

Oh OP, I started off being so angry with him on your behalf, but now I think I am equally frustrated with you.  He is projecting onto you his own motivation.  He is with you because you are financially subsidizing his lifestyle.  You're struggling to pay bills and support two children all the while putting him in a position to save several hundred thousand dollars.  Wake up!  Where the hell is your self-respect??  Most important, if you have a daughter, you're teaching her to be a used doormat as well.  Are you really OK with that?

Have you noticed that is all these responses, NO ONE has is any way thought your boyfriend's opinion is justified?  [/quote]

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