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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again. To answer a few questions. No, we will not leave the country. No, his parent didn't co-sign.
Wedding won't be for at least a couple years, and money will definitely factor into possibly waiting even later than that. Kids are not on my/our radar right now. 
He absolutely needs a second job.  I don't want to give details here of what his degree was in and what his job is now. But, he has a BA and a masters from a state school, with a lot of relevant experience using those degrees (internships and teaching), but ultimately chose to work somewhere in a somewhat entry-level position that pertains to what he wants to go back to school for. Sorry to be so obscure about it- I already feel bad airing our dirty laundry on DCUM. 
I know there's a few factors here. Including aspects of our personalities, past relationship issues, current relationship dynamics, mismatched finances etc-- that could be a few different posts so I'll spare you. 
It's clear we need to talk. [/quote]

I just also want you to know....you are thinking way too much about the future.  I don't think I would dump a guy for going to school and taking on student loan debt.  UMMMMMMMMMMMM that is what everyone does.  But I would dump him if he didn't want to work two jobs to make ends meat.  I hate a lazy guy.  But really...you are just thinking too much.  You are not going to make some big salary right out of school.  It just doesn't work like that for most people and DC does not pay for entry level positions fresh out of school.  I know a lot of people making $30K to $35K, especially if you don't have a technical degree.  So he just has to work and work and work.  OR join the military![/quote]

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