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[quote=Anonymous]OP here.  I'll try to address multiple questions here

I don't really think his friends would cover for him because they are good friends of mine also, and I just think they are really good people and wouldn't do it (of course, I admit I could be wrong)

I don't think my husband has a drinking problem, as he hardly ever drinks at home.  And, he doesn't go over his friends houses that often, it's just when he does, he likes to let loose and drink.  I mean, we have a baby, so he's not going to want to be getting drunk at home with our baby there.

I really don't think he's having an affair, because he doesn't go out very often at all.  If he goes out, it's either going to a friends house for a cook-out or watching sports (which I'm not really into), etc., or it's hunting/fishing.  I'm quite positive when he's going to his friends house, that's where he is.  When he goes hunting or fishing, most of the time he brings home what he's killed, so I know he wasn't just banging another woman.

Plus, we have a sort of open relationship.  He's allowed to have sexual encounters with other women once in a while, as long as there is no romantic relationship, and as long as he tells me about it.  We have a few "friends" who he hooks up with now and then.  Honestly, he's home too much to be having an emotional affair with anyone else.

When he doesn't come home when he has said he would, I try to tell myself, hey, he's probably just asleep at so-and-so's house....but then there's still that nagging possibility that he did try to come home, and something happened.  I admit, I'm a worry-wart, just like my mom is.

I talked with him about it again last night, and I think we found a solution.  He promised to have whatever friend he is with when he goes out text me to let me know if he has fallen asleep at their place and will be staying over there for the night.  If they will actually do that, then I'll be happy.  :)[/quote]

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