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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I read you berating yourself for raising your voice to your husband, for losing your temper when you defend yourself. That does not mean you are ABUSIVE. It is very possible for a verbally abusive, emotionally abusive person to speak in a soft tone the entire time. Volume does not equal abuse. Control, emotional manipulation, punishment, berating - those are abusive. Your defense of yourself shows that you still have some instincts for self-preservation and self-respect left. Do not let him beat those out of you. 5 more years and you might not be fighting back any more. Get help for yourself now. Please.[/quote]
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