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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let me explain things from the other point of view. My husband is very disorganized, very messy, very forgetful. It is very difficult to live with. Life is very unpredictable, which, in turn, can make me seem like I'm 'micromanaging'. However, I have to be sure my kids get picked up from the bus stop if he says he's doing it that day, that whatever is needed for school gets there, that one or both dogs have not been left outside, even though he only takes them out for five minutes, supervised. I have to ensure the cats are not locked up somewhere by accident. We've had thousands of dollars in vet bills because he leaves something somewhere and the dogs get into it.

I do love him, but this I do not love. It's hard to live with. He's definitely ADD per marriage counselor/psychologist and unmedicated. Will never medicate. So he's going to simply be hard to live with and I will be the b*tch who micromanages.

Those of you who's husband's micromanage admit to being chronically late, leaving dirty things around, etc. There's probably more to it then just that. Take a look inward and ask yourselves how difficult YOU are to live with as well.[/quote]

Look at the list of his demands in the first post -- what she wears, where she places things, IN WHAT ORDER SHE TOUCHES KEYS ON THE KEYBOARD.  She does not have ADD.  She has a husband who is a crazy, irrational control freak.[/quote]

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