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Reply to "Pouts and Denial- What is Wrong With My Wife?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What would “taking the bait and rewarding her behavior” look like? [/quote] Arguing and yelling in response rather than walking away if I had to guess. What else would it be? [/quote] [b]I would guess it would be listening to whatever she is upset about[/b], trying to empathize, and taking responsibility for whatever part he had to play. Or giving her a break, making dinner for her and the kids, and letting her take a walk or go to the gym or do whatever she needs to do. Why would yelling at someone be a reward? [/quote] She denied being upset at anything. You calling OP's wife a liar? That's harsh. [/quote] That’s not true. She said that she was upset that he didn’t heat up dinner for her. He could have tried to empathize and apologize for hurting her feelings. That’s what I would consider “rewarding her” anyway. Why would yelling at your spouse be a reward? [/quote] The dinner was later in the evening. Wife denied being upset four times when OP got home. (Assuming he's a reliable narrator.)[/quote]
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