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Reply to "My ADHD husband lets me down in every single possible logistical situation. Anyone else in a similar boat?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I was in a similar boat until his dx in 9/24. I thought he had undiagnosed autism so the neuropsych assessment was a big surprise- it’s just adhd?! I also have adhd dx and with medication I am functioning fine. Now in April 2026, after 1 1/2 years of meds and such, he has regained my trust and is a mostly wonderful partner. Prior to this, as an example, he would sign up for those stitch fix services that send you clothes every month and then just never return the clothes that didn’t fit. I counted almost 1k in wasted clothes from that. They would all just sit in his closet in bags until I finally dealt with them. He could not be counted on to do anything consistently other than work. He allowed our bank account to overdraw repeatedly despite high incomes. The lawn was never well taken care of- I eventually had to hire a lawn service he always complained about. He would start new systems and lose track of them by 2-4 weeks. [/quote]
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