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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's amazing to me how many men develop ADHD (always diagnosed by the wife) after marriage and never while dating or just living together. It's truly a mystery. [/quote]
You do realize that having kids completely destroys the systems that people with ADHD developed, right? Your responsibilities and the stress put on your executive functioning increases exponentially. That’s also why so many smart women in mid-life are diagnosed… multiple kids plus hormone changes makes everything completely unsustainable when to the outside world you seem “fine”. [/quote]

No, it doesn't. That's just what you tell yourself so you have to take no accountability and admit that you picked an imperfect person (but there is no such thing anyway). [/quote]
Here we go. Have fun walking through life like this. You know, 99% of people become disabled at some point in their lives if they live long enough. May you be shown as much compassion, curiosity, and understanding as you give, PP. But by god, if you die being “right” then go for it.[/quote]

I AM showing compassion. I am showing compassion to the person she married and whose flaws she was all too willing to overlook in order to get married. And now he is the villain for having a disability. I have a husband and a child with ADHD and and wouldn’t dream having this much contempt for them. I’m sure just like OP you are perfect in every way and everything that goes wrong is always someone else’s fault. [/quote]

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