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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you want kids you don’t need a man to make that happen. [/quote] Well, then she'd be raising a kind on $150k, and she didn't think $280k combined was enough! [/quote] That's not 280K combined. Thats her 150K plus his 120K minus 30%*120=84,000 (net of his expenses on kids from prior marriage). So she would be contributing almost double into joint point than him, and he will have much less time available towards their joint kids, vacations etc. Plus OP is on hook for alimony/child support to him, should marriage fall apart. They would certainly buy a house/rent a bigger place so his extra marginal contribution would be "eaten" by these higher mortage/rental expenses to accommodate the large family, his kids visiting etc. I think OP is better off financially raising one kid at a smaller apartment and bears zero risk of loosing custody, CS or alimony[/quote]
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