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[quote=Anonymous]Nope, white lies and “nuance” responses to an inappropriate request that you will not say yes to in the future is likely to yield future problems. People who are rude, entitled, and/or clueless enough to make a request like this do not pick up on nuance. They only see an opening. They will either try to help you solve the white lie to get to “yes” or make the same request in the future. No or no we would not be willing to do this is a far kinder response and likely to yield a better future relationship. If the other person throws a fit then the reality is that your relationship only goes as far as you can transactionally provide things to them, which is a toxic relationship.[/quote]
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