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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] :cry: [quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s fun[/quote] I’ve had times in my life when I thought being mean was fun. Looking back, these were some of the least joyful, least fulfilled, and most insecure moments I experienced. I always regretted my meanness, too — and life is so short. [/quote] I agree with all of this except the regret.[/quote] I don't think regret is particularly helpful, but I do think regret is warranted when someone is intentionally mean and realize later that [b]the mean-ness was unwarranted[/b].[/quote] There’s the disconnect. I know I shouldn’t say mean things. Even if a person really, truly deserves to hear the mean things. So I don’t want to be mean for my own mental health, but I don’t feel past meanness was unwarranted, necessarily.[/quote] Is being mean ever warranted other than the self-satisfaction for the hit of feeling powerful for a few seconds? Do you thrive those seconds of feeling powerful by hurting someone else? I would say that someone you think deserves meanness really deserves non-judgmental stating of facts for what is really no more than your opinion.[/quote]
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