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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]By breaking it off with anyone who isn't. No fixer uppers. Just wish him well and move on.[/quote]

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Knowing what you are looking for.  I was very up front about my expectations.  I even had some guys dump me because they felt like they were in a job interview - well, they were - the most important job interview in life!!  I wanted an educated man from a good family (married parents) who was kind, loving, and supportive of my ambitions and career.  I told men right up front this is what I wanted and many left.  Good.  May stayed and it didn’t work out because our interests were different.  I am very sporty and wanted a guy to ski, run and rock climb with - or at least one that didn’t get jealous of me doing these things with male friends- very few women can keep up with me, so I had (before kids) lots of male friends to do these things with.  Most of my climbing and ski partners were totally unsuitable for me to marry, ie not educated or ambitious career wise.  Turns out I met a guy in grad school who was actually as good or better than me at all these things.  His parents were loving and kind, and so is he.  - I totally fell in love almost immediately.  When I look back at my early dating days I probably would have missed him - in HS he was goth with a Mohawk and earrings.  You’d never guess that now.  I was the preppy trendy girl who listened to popular music and was mainstream.[/quote]

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