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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think I do 90% on this list (dh does errands, dishes and everyone does their own laundry), plus I work f/t and I make 145k—-after a PhD and 20 yrs in my field! Damn. I would love to have a “household manager” myself. It also reminds me how much in our supposedly equal” marriage my spouse doesn’t do. Like, I’m getting everyone their Xmas presents right now (his family too); booked all the plane tickets, cars; air bnbs; etc. I manage all our finances, bills, home care and my own car care. I deal with insurance/medical bills and reimbursement; shopping for housebound goods; lawn care, taxes, most of the cooking, and weekly tidying of the entire house. I deal with all our mail, make all the vet/dental/seminal appointments. I am the only one who gets on the school websites to check grades and homework and email teachers. . I do all our entertaining. I work more hours at an office (he’s remote) and I’m so freaking tired. [/quote] Same. Be proud though, you’re doing it and got your ssshit together well. Many other households, things fall through the cracks or they punch out entirely. [/quote]
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