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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Brenda has always been the do-everything dependable person that kept all the balls in the air." Nonsense. Brenda couldn't even get her own house! If she could, she wouldn't have pestered mom for this ridiculous arrangement. Joan's sibling is right, things should go to as they were. Brenda needs to get out of there with her husband and kids! What caretaking are we talking about for 15 years??? If Joan is 80 now, she was 65!!! 65 is not any age where any caretaking is necessary. Brenda is a user and a lying b*. Get out of your mom's house!!! Nobody believes your stupid made up stories how helpful you are and how you take on responsibilities. You're a nasty lazy user. Now that mom is 80 and actually needs looking after, you're "finally trying to stop". Yeah, right. [/quote]

1) I’m not Brenda.
2) Joan has been disabled since she was 55.  [/quote]

So who are you that you so intimately know all the details? Enlighten us. If Joan has been disabled since 55, why did Brenda even want to move into her house? She must have been desperate. Did she hope Joan dies quickly and she gets the house and everything with little effort? What is Joan supposed to do now that Brenda is unwilling to do her share? Who was taking care of Joan before (there's 10 years from 55 to 65)? It's obvious that the deal was that Brenda gets the house in the exchange for caretaking. Sure, she didn't know it may take 50 years, but that was the deal. So suck it up buttercup or sell the house, give mom her deserved share and let her make other arrangements. Or what exactly is Brenda's plan now that she has the title? Let mom die of hunger? Try to force other siblings come and care for mom when they had no arrangement with her? Try to send Joan to live with her siblings who are still alive and old themselves? [/quote]

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