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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Iโm surprised OP doesnโt know that one of the biggest triggers for DCUM women is admitting you like older men. ๐๐๐[/quote] +100 This is a huge trigger here.[/quote] because a lot of here are gen x or older millenials, with aging parents (or husbands!), and know what dealing with old men are like![/quote] Right? It's more out of solidarity with other women. We're not fighting over the same men. Most older women don't want older men anyway - they prefer to be single over taking on a second husband and becoming a caretaker to a new man and potentially his children.[/quote] This is the truth. All my friends are long-marrieds to their first husbands (met in college, grad school or first jobs) but would not remarry if widowed/divorced. No one wants to be a caretaker after raising a family to anyone but their current spouse. [/quote] Women would be more interested in long term relationships in middle age if men dated women their own age. But men brag all the time how "worthless"50s women are. The more I read it on this forum, the less I'm interested in dating men in general. As most second marriages are with larger gaps, a woman would be only interested in caretaker role if serious $$$ reward is guaranteed. These are many years of life devoted to an old person! Maybe younger women don't understand it, but anyone who has parents over 70 or an older first husband knows [/quote]
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