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[quote=Anonymous]Yeah I have zero prob in helping my kids with anything I can financially if I'm able,  I mean they are your children. What does their ability to pay have anything to do with my love for them to want to? Esp college.  I mean I raise them to be as self sufficient as possible but money is a luxury.  If I can help them because I have it, it doesn't make them any less or worse people it it shouldn't.  So many people have this weird idea that if you push somebody to work at an early age somehow they will be big workers and see successs.  WTAF? Either you want to be successful or you don't - when you started working is completely irrelevant! It is so much personality.  Success comes if you have a good attitude and money does not change this - your own nature controls.  So maybe my kids love me back as much as I love them - love also is not something you can control.  You can only do what you feel you want to do.

So I guess OP - everyone has a different situation. I'm also Asian and for generations, esp education but in all ways, we help the next generation as much as possible because we are able. [/quote]

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