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[quote=Anonymous]One group of people who are likely to regret divorce are those who don’t really want one, but present it as a nuclear option to get their way on something, and then to their surprise find their partner accepting it. My BPD ex did that, and my therapist tells me they did me the biggest favor. My grown kids aren’t thrilled by how much of the craziness that I used to absorb now gets hurled in their direction, but they know I suffered more than enough. I’m not sure how common this scenario is, however, but it falls into the “grass is greener” category, a subset where the person seeking the divorce envisions the divorce being a win for them (and also wants it to be a consequence/punishment for their partner).[/quote]
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