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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Maybe she found it difficult to be attracted to a rapist? Jesus christ."

HaHa.  Not only are you ignorant, but very rude also.
A rapist would be having sex. [b] Any normal man would be repulsed at having sex with a woman that didn't desire it.[/b]  You need to get a life PP

I've asked myself a million times if the tables were turned, what would I be willing to do.  I guess one would never know unless put into the situation.  I honestly think though that I love her enough that I would've done anything for her pleasure.  I still feel that way.[b]  I'd take one for the team [/b]any time she desired, all without her even knowing of my distaste. That's the real rub, having known her love didn't extend to a little sacrifice. [/quote]
Aren’t these statements at odds? Any normal man would be disgusted to have sex with a woman who doesn’t want it - yet you want your wife to lie back and let you F**k her as a wifely duty. You’re upset she doesn’t let you rape her to satisfy you and you consider that “love”. Were you sexually abused as a child? What kind of person thinks this?[/quote]
Np. Taking one for the team is not even remotely closed to getting raped. You sound too dense to know the difference. Men and women take one for the team in a marriage when it comes to sex and many other things.[/quote]
"Taking one for the team" = "I'm not into it, but get it over with"
PP says any man would be disgusted to have sex with a woman who doesn't desire it. So which is it? Does he want a hole to f*** so badly he'll do it if she isn't into it,  or does he want to respect her bodily autonomy? [/quote]
Its not just a woman, its his wife. She may not be into it initially, but once they start doing it, she will get into it and enjoy it.[/quote]

This is, BY FAR, the most r*pey statement in a thread full of them.

Consider whether you'd say the same thing about your daughter or your mother, and then either re-evaluate your position or tell your wife that you feel this way so that she leaves you to your r*pey beliefs.[/quote]

It's not though. It's not a using force or coercion to violate her body situation. I'm pretty sure you're tuned out on the subject and won't listen, but if I am misjudging you, think of it as the dynamic around going for a run. There's all kinds of inertia stopping you from stepping out the door and getting started. Then as you get warmed up, the run feels good. After you're finished, you're really happy you went for a run and wonder why you don't do it more often. (Next day, "ugh, I don't feel like going for a run." Rinse. Repeat.) [/quote]

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