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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Play the long game OP. You need to figure out if you want to stay or leave before confrontation. The best decisions are never made in the heat of the moment. Calm down and think long term.[/quote]

The confrontation will provide a lot of information salient to whether the marriage is salvageable. Does he lie? Blameshift? Minimize? Justify? Hedge?

It makes sense that her brain is like "get rid of AP, then figure out the marriage." It's not a marriage when there's an extra person in it. Get it back to what it's supposed to be and then figure out what to do with it.

Neither of these women should be looking at this man and thinking he's a safe bet. He's shown that he's a selfish manipulator who doesn't care about lying or using people. But there are sunk costs - OP is already married to him with kids. Life is complicated.[/quote]

No, you are wrong. There is almost no chance OP will obtain valuable information from confronting-she already done so on multiple occasions. [/quote]

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