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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In the abstract, I'm opposed to paying for a vacation for a kid in their late twenties.  However, I'm close with my nieces and nephews, and there are only a few, so I imagine I'd pay for my kids to attend their destination wedding when the time comes.  Spending money on quality family time and supporting my siblings, nieces, and nephews makes sense.  I would never pay for my kids to do a friend trip, but for a family trip to support my nieces and nephews, yes. [/quote]

Weird, if you have the finances, why are you "opposed" for paying for a vacation for a kid in their late 20s?  I get if it's just for the kid, but if it's a family vacation, why not?  We ensure we get quality family time (all of our kids live in separate cities) by including them (and paying for) a vacation or two each year.  It's totally their choice to come or not.  No strings attached.  They always come because they enjoy spending time with us (their family) and their siblings (also family). [/quote]

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