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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Question about the men who do this and then launch new families with a younger woman. Do those stick or do they end up walking away from those too?[/quote]

I’m the new wife (now ex-wife). I was actually wife #3. Yes, I was stupid, and yes, I should have known better.

He tried to stick it out because a third divorce and broken family looks bad, but even though he was physically in the home, mentally and emotionally he was completely checked out.

Reality is a lot of men simply don’t want families and go through with it because of pressure from society, peer groups, family, etc. In our case, I do believe he wanted companionship, and he only went through with marriage and kids because I was going to break up with him if he didn’t.
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The reality is that their subsequent wives - for example, [b]you [/b]- pressure them into having kids even though they already had kids and didn't really want more. You knew this, and you did it anyway. You could have found a man who didn't have kids already and genuinely wanted them, but you didn't. What happened to you and your poor kids is 100% on [b]you[/b].[/quote]

The reality is that those same men have the ability to say no. They have the ability to get a vasectomy or wear a condom. These are not helpless puppies, they are grown men, and if they truly are so helpless that they cannot say no to people, they certainly should not be in any positions of power or leadership, and really should be a under a conservatorship because they are unable to advocate for themselves. [/quote]

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