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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This thread is fascinating. I see healthy, well adjusted, secure adults who recognize a friend group can exist as its own entity and not be hurt or bothered when they aren’t part of that friend group and then I see a bunch of adults who immediately pivot to “rude, petty, mean girl, bullying” blaming. I can guarantee you the first group is better received in real life social situations and happier overall without immediately resorting to ugly thoughts and self victimization because … another group of women is friends and want to talk to each other. [/quote] Ha, keep telling yourself that lack of generosity and kindness is perfectly normal. We see you.[/quote] It’s hard enough to find time to get together with people that all get along and are close. And then that whole afternoon is taken up by OP inserting herself the entire time and talking. It would have been perfectly reasonable for OP to say hi and chat for a couple minutes and then excuse herself. If they want her to stay they can say so. [/quote] Don't expect private time at the neighborhood pool People might just <gasp> try to start up a conversation [/quote]
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