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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Okay, I'll bite - what physically attracts a femme to a butch?  Why a masculine woman instead of a guy?[/quote]

I don't understand this either.  I mean, if you decide at some point that you're more attracted to women than men how do you end up with a woman who looks more like a man than a woman?  I'm not trying to be offensive, it's just really hard for me to understand.[/quote]

Different PP here.  When did you decide that you were attracted to men?  And the types.  When did you decide that dark haired men appealed more to you?  Or light haired?  When did you decide that taller men were more attractive?  Or shorter men?  When did you decide that you wanted a more urban type?  Or a more rugged outdoors type?  When did you make all of the decisions of what attracted you to types of men?  And despite all of these things that we find most attractive, when do the ones that fall in love with someone completely against their "type" decide that this strange person that they would never have believed that they could be attracted to, was the one that attracted them?

You didn't.  Most people don't "choose" these things.  They just find that certain people are more attractive than others based on a collection of thousands of inputs that make up your collective personal history.  It may be someone with attributes that reminds you of a particular loved one, or mannerisms that make you comfortable, or features that appeal because they are reminiscent of an attractive famous person or on and on.

Gay people are people.  They don't choose their sexual orientation.  They don't choose the features that appeal to them.  They are a composite of a thousand different experiences that make certain types more attractive to them.[/quote]

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