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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For a million different reasons and many go onto have great lives and marriages. Everyone’s circumstances and families and relationships may differ. Not every cheater is evil or no longer trust worthy and not every betrayed wife is weak or doesn’t have a career. For many they take a long hard look at their kids and future and past as well. Another pp spelled it out well a few posts above. Many have built something very great together and someone’s temporary midlife crisis isn’t enough to change the trajectory of the family. There usually was lots of love and strong foundation first. [/quote] Exactly - life is long. Marriages are complicated - long term marriages even more so there is little place for black and white thinking as most marriages 20 years plus endure many seasons - for me it came down to my own views of commitment which include (we may completely f up and that may be part of our story but if we are willing to learn and grow from it and be clear on our values going forward we can continue) [/quote]
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