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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have 2 girls - 25(graduated from Pitt) and working at a small jewelry store as e-commerce manager, second is 21 and still in college. They are already tight with their money and I don’t expect any support from them and get them gifts during birthdays or holidays. Reason of being depressed and super stressed is because I broke up with my fiance a few months ago and he was kind and very supportive and helped me out with loans too but we were arguing a lot and I ended up getting my own place. [/quote] You need a roommate or to move in with family. And if you are not underwater on your car you should immediately sell it buy something for half the monthly payment or less. And you need to break yourself of whatever delusion convinced you that you "needed" this car in the first place or that you could afford it. You are making bad decision after bad decision and you have to dig yourself out. Your kids are out of the house. Tell them until you pay off your debt you can't buy them any more gifts or give them money. Tell your family and friends the same thing. Do not buy a single stitch of new clothing or home decor for at least a year, maybe more. Go extreme minimalist. This is your only shot at actually righting the ship. You can do it but you have to commit and it doesn't sound like you are ready for that. [/quote]
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