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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In our relationship it’s opposite. I’m DW and generally ready to go, dont want much foreplay. DH needs touch just generally. I have to make a point cuddle, kiss, hug ect because I do care about his needs. You should try to be physical with him more (in a non sexual way) and talk about it more[/quote]
This is also me. I am more "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" meanwhile my partner loves a lot of constant contact, cuddling together and touching almost constantly. However, I would be extremely turned off if a man just expected me to instantly spread my legs at the drop of a hat with ZERO effort put into setting the mood. I dont need elaborate foreplay whatsoever, but it sounds like OP's DH does absolutely nothing and still expects sex on demand... that's a turn off based on the entitlement alone.[/quote]

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with wanting some wham Bam thank you ma’am, but it sounds like these husbands every single time pound their wives for their own pleasure with no regard to pain or pleasure. Wanting sex quick and fast doesn’t mean you don’t allow for pleasure for your partner. We used to make fun of men like this in college calling them jackhammers, and warn our friends at all costs! [/quote]

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