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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do men understand that this is why their wives aren’t interested in sex?  
It’s not really choreplay.  It’s just that being unreliable is a turn off, and the entire time your wife is doing stuff that you said you would do, she kind of hates you.  Especially if she’s tired.  [/quote]

This. It's a lack of respect-- she loses respect for him because he's unreliable, lazy, selifhs, and irresponsible. So she does the chores he said he would do, thinking all the while about how she regrets marrying him. Then he wants sex.[/quote]

You have literally just summed up 99% of all marriages.

WHY don't they get it?! DO WHAT YOU SAY YOU WILL DO. So easy.[/quote]

I'm not married, and I cannot tolerate this behavior from anyone--not boyfriends, not lovers, not friends, not family, not colleagues. I can't stand being let down and lied to. 
Unsurprisingly, I have a lonely life. I don't care. I sure as shit am not going to spend my life with someone if I can't believe a word he says about anything. [/quote]

Divorced woman checking in. Married for a long time. This is, absolutely, the correct answer.

These issues directly led to my divorce, but then my ex cheated too and my eyes had to open instantly. It was horrible.

Men my age (40’s and up) tend to be angry, resentful teenage babies. This has held true both in the dating world and among my friends and acquaintances. I keep my mouth shut with friends but I SEE IT. Not many people are happy.

These guys want new wives since they never planned to take care of their own lives in retirement. They are truly using all their mental ability to create a delusion where we are still living in the 1950’s.

Married to a woman who mothers them, sitting on the couch having drinks and food delivered, and being generally worshipped for their incredible life achievements is their expected finish line.

Writing the last paragraph made me dumber! Women must stop pretending this whole entire cultural phenomenon isn’t happening!!!! Younger women seem to get it and won’t tolerate this behavior.

We are the boss, we need to act like it. [/quote]

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