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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I want to give positive examples here of dates with men who didn’t drive. One was very attractive, 2 years younger than me and a director at tech company. He worked remote, and was very pro environmental. Only biked around, [b]living in Arlington[/b].
The second was a lawyer with a rare eye decease . 
None of them asked for rides; both took me on really nice first dates [/quote]

The difference is that OP’s date lives in a place where a car is needed. [/quote]

DP. While I still think OP needs to tell the guy to meet her, and should not give him rides:

I'd note that one person's idea of "a car is essential in this place!" is not necessarily how another person might view the same location.

My Dh is from another country, and has lived in places I, as a car-centric American, might think of as places where I'd need a car. But he and others from there would shrug and say, I can manage fine on public transportation. He's also lived in places in the US where I'd want a car, but he would say, no real need. So I take with a grain of salt OP's assertion that the guy "needs" a car. But still -- he shouldn't be asking for rides and she shouldn't give him one. He's a stranger. [/quote]

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