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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You all need to go to therapy and do deep work on yourselves if you're still gutted from throw away comments from otherwise loving parents[/quote]

Abusive parent has entered the chat![/quote]

Meh. While I agree with the PPs saying it's unlikely the "throw away comments" came from parents who were truly "otherwise loving", [b]carrying your childhood dysfunction like a cross into your adulthood does strongly suggest a need to find a professional to help you put it down[/b].

Yes, that happened to some of us, AND we can let it go and be rid of the weight of it. Adults are responsible for how they behave and react, even if/when it means we need to get help adjusting our behaviors and reactions because we didn't get what we needed as kids. It isn't abusive to point that out.[/quote]

I think it's tiresome that you assume we haven't sought professional help and are still carrying it around "like a cross". I can't forget the words, but that doesn't mean I'm still broken by them. Those words were transformative and gave me agency. [/quote]

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