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[quote=Anonymous]Yeah, no, don't do that because it's making you look like the bad guy. I know it's very unfair, but when one spouse doesn't pull their weight in the relationship, the other has to act like the adult: explain why the situation is not working, propose solutions and decide on a graduated series of *rational* consequences if the other person doesn't follow-through. Hiding underwear is not on the list. You can say explain that his lack of attention and planning are stressing you out and you can't do his laundry, his meals or lift a finger for him, on top of all the worries you have. [/quote]
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