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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yep. Most of Gen X. Even those of us whose parents never divorced. Significant therapy and still trying to understand finances. My parents have little space for self reflection or conversations about feelings. Mom still talks at me. I’m reading about cycle breaking and doing the work, which is not out loud or direct with them. It’s been liberating to not get hooked into their patterns. At times I envy my sibling who married into a supportive and communicative family. My spouse is similar to myself minus doing the work to heal. It’s slow going reparenting myself and he does see the value. I’m hopeful and steadier. Have an excellent chosen family. [/quote] Adding I don’t think they could have done any better than they did. I know they did the best they could. They were pretty checked out minus basic care. We weren’t exactly neglected or dirty. hard to explain. [/quote]
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