whats worse is FVU is bottom of barrel on boys side. Kept mostly Brave players and the good union kids went to better clubs. So not only may you not dress. Those dressing are getting hammered in play.Anonymous wrote:It’s not a good look for a Club and not fair to kids.
I do want to say I’m on the FVU boys side and no roster is bigger than 23 most 21. We also have the option to play with the RL teams from Vienna or McLean if not rostered a week.
It was all spelled out and handled fairly.
I’m not sure about the girls side and we’ll see how it plays out, but don’t believe all the hype.
I’m curious what Club you are with, if you don’t want to say it now, mention it in the Spring. Clubs should be held accountable for these sort of decisions.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't know. I TOTALLY don't feel this way by U17.
My kids moved to an MLSNext Club and knew they would always have to fight and prove themselves. The roster was announced each week. My oldest had an Injury that kept him out U17 so he ended up the 25th player on an MLSNext roster U18/19. It made him work, work hard. He wanted a starting spot. He put in the time and effort and didn't whine. If a lower team didn't have enough players, he went and supported them. He didn't cry and moan. He knew going in he had to prove himself. The transformation from Sept to June was amazing.
I have also been in situations with my other son where they added kids late. If the kid was truly better than any of the starters, including my own kid (which some were), I had zero qualms about my kid not getting playing time until they could show they deserved to be out there.
It's how you frame it for your kid. But, by U17 and beyond, one should be fighting for their spot every practice and every week.
If you want a spot guaranteed, play time guaranteed--than the top EcNL and MLSNext and college programs are not right for you and your kid.
99% with you. I think the problem is with college recruiting that you’ve got such a limited window. For example, my DC was a starting OB, the club had a new coach who wanted to move from a 433 to a 352. Kid was the best mix of defending and go forward, but not as good a scorer as the pure wings, and not as big as the pure CB. In other words, a traditional OB in a 4-back. New coach comes in, kid is now fighting for minutes with wingers who don’t worry about defending, or with CBs that offer much more arial threat. This happens in the pros all the time, and usually they sell that player on to a team where the style fits. But with only 12-24 months of college recruiting, you are kind of screwed.
What's an OB?
Why couldn't he adjust?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't know. I TOTALLY don't feel this way by U17.
My kids moved to an MLSNext Club and knew they would always have to fight and prove themselves. The roster was announced each week. My oldest had an Injury that kept him out U17 so he ended up the 25th player on an MLSNext roster U18/19. It made him work, work hard. He wanted a starting spot. He put in the time and effort and didn't whine. If a lower team didn't have enough players, he went and supported them. He didn't cry and moan. He knew going in he had to prove himself. The transformation from Sept to June was amazing.
I have also been in situations with my other son where they added kids late. If the kid was truly better than any of the starters, including my own kid (which some were), I had zero qualms about my kid not getting playing time until they could show they deserved to be out there.
It's how you frame it for your kid. But, by U17 and beyond, one should be fighting for their spot every practice and every week.
If you want a spot guaranteed, play time guaranteed--than the top EcNL and MLSNext and college programs are not right for you and your kid.
99% with you. I think the problem is with college recruiting that you’ve got such a limited window. For example, my DC was a starting OB, the club had a new coach who wanted to move from a 433 to a 352. Kid was the best mix of defending and go forward, but not as good a scorer as the pure wings, and not as big as the pure CB. In other words, a traditional OB in a 4-back. New coach comes in, kid is now fighting for minutes with wingers who don’t worry about defending, or with CBs that offer much more arial threat. This happens in the pros all the time, and usually they sell that player on to a team where the style fits. But with only 12-24 months of college recruiting, you are kind of screwed.
Anonymous wrote:I don't know. I TOTALLY don't feel this way by U17.
My kids moved to an MLSNext Club and knew they would always have to fight and prove themselves. The roster was announced each week. My oldest had an Injury that kept him out U17 so he ended up the 25th player on an MLSNext roster U18/19. It made him work, work hard. He wanted a starting spot. He put in the time and effort and didn't whine. If a lower team didn't have enough players, he went and supported them. He didn't cry and moan. He knew going in he had to prove himself. The transformation from Sept to June was amazing.
I have also been in situations with my other son where they added kids late. If the kid was truly better than any of the starters, including my own kid (which some were), I had zero qualms about my kid not getting playing time until they could show they deserved to be out there.
It's how you frame it for your kid. But, by U17 and beyond, one should be fighting for their spot every practice and every week.
If you want a spot guaranteed, play time guaranteed--than the top EcNL and MLSNext and college programs are not right for you and your kid.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is the way it works at the big clubs. Even with teams that aren’t that good.
The coaches are making good money, the clubs also provide different coaching directors etc. the only way to make budget for all that is with more players.
You don’t have to be a brain surgeon to figure this one out.
But yes the only way to get better is to play significant minutes in the games. Consider doublecarding with a lower level team to get those minutes in. This is the way it is.
The only way to get better is not significant minutes in games, it's putting in the extra work outside practice and going hard at practice. How many times does your kid touch the ball if they play the full game, 10? 15? 20 times? Now how many times do they touch the ball in practice? 100? 120? game time doesn't equal development, it's a chance to put what you learned at practice into play against an opponent.
All the kids on team are getting those touches in practice. Only some of the players are getting significant game time on top of the practice time. Which players do you think are getting better development? There are situations that happen only in games when you are playing another opponent on a full field, pressure, tactics, decisions that need to be made that aren't easy to simulate in practice. Of course some player development happens in games. Not just in games, but games are very important for development.
THIS. And for players committed to play in college, game time is key to be ready. The idea that practice is enough is ridiculous and coaches know that. It's a moneygrab.
How you gonna be a college commit and you can't get in the 18 from a 23 local club roster?
Worse you can't start on a local team?
How you going to make a college roster competing against regional, national and international players?
That would be a good point if it were a 23 player roster. Except it's a 33+ player roster.
This must be an auction.
The roster size exaggerations keep climbing
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Stupid question reading through this thread.
What kind of teams have this many kids? Is it ECNL or the regular club teams? My kids play for a smaller club and only have 14/15 on each team, so I’m trying to wrap my head around these numbers.
These are money grabbing ECNL and lesser extent GA teams. Some carry 25-30 kids on the teams, all selling 'exposure to college coaches,' for a $3500 price tag. Families that were on 2nd teams, now happy to be on a 1st team, not realizing they eventually take 25-30 kids.
I feel bad for the families with kids on the second team, fine with being on the second team, likely with options to play for a club without an MLSNext or ECNL top team that then lose playing time to kids not on their team
It’s the bait and switch that is the problem. They should be honest about roster size.
The should be honest with the RL kids that they will lose playing time because the ECNL roster is too big for everyone to dress. Of course, those kids may more to clubs where the top team is RL or USYS and the clubs don't want that
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Stupid question reading through this thread.
What kind of teams have this many kids? Is it ECNL or the regular club teams? My kids play for a smaller club and only have 14/15 on each team, so I’m trying to wrap my head around these numbers.
These are money grabbing ECNL and lesser extent GA teams. Some carry 25-30 kids on the teams, all selling 'exposure to college coaches,' for a $3500 price tag. Families that were on 2nd teams, now happy to be on a 1st team, not realizing they eventually take 25-30 kids.
I feel bad for the families with kids on the second team, fine with being on the second team, likely with options to play for a club without an MLSNext or ECNL top team that then lose playing time to kids not on their team
It’s the bait and switch that is the problem. They should be honest about roster size.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Stupid question reading through this thread.
What kind of teams have this many kids? Is it ECNL or the regular club teams? My kids play for a smaller club and only have 14/15 on each team, so I’m trying to wrap my head around these numbers.
These are money grabbing ECNL and lesser extent GA teams. Some carry 25-30 kids on the teams, all selling 'exposure to college coaches,' for a $3500 price tag. Families that were on 2nd teams, now happy to be on a 1st team, not realizing they eventually take 25-30 kids.
I feel bad for the families with kids on the second team, fine with being on the second team, likely with options to play for a club without an MLSNext or ECNL top team that then lose playing time to kids not on their team
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Stupid question reading through this thread.
What kind of teams have this many kids? Is it ECNL or the regular club teams? My kids play for a smaller club and only have 14/15 on each team, so I’m trying to wrap my head around these numbers.
These are money grabbing ECNL and lesser extent GA teams. Some carry 25-30 kids on the teams, all selling 'exposure to college coaches,' for a $3500 price tag. Families that were on 2nd teams, now happy to be on a 1st team, not realizing they eventually take 25-30 kids.