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[quote=Anonymous]I actually think the “next round is on you” could be a light-hearted way to let the woman pay for a few things in situations where the man does the majority of paying and the woman has expressed interest in chipping in. So I don’t think it’s necessarily “rude” per se. But what I’m seeing here is a general incompatibility. You aren’t seeing him as trying to be light-hearted; you think he’s rude. You aren’t thinking his birthday comment is darkly funny or sardonic; you think he’s a downer. And you don’t seem to want to talk these things over with him; you kinda just want to label him “wrong.” Let him go and find what he wants. And you keep looking for someone who you find you want to give the benefit of the doubt to or work through issues like this with. [/quote]
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