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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What’s the length of visit and where is everyone staying?[/quote]

OP here. They will be arriving next Wednesday and staying until Sunday. They are all staying at our home. [/quote]

Hell to the no. I fell for this, thinking that anyone with the audacity to stay in the home of a family that just had a baby would step up and be helpful and not expect to be hosted. Cue my ILs and parents, sitting around, telling me how wonderful it must be for me to have them hold the baby for one hour while he slept (and could have been in a crib) and how easy they were making it for me to host them. We'd get take out and they would all eat first while I was with the baby and then when I was finally able to eat most of it would be gone. It was 100% about their selfish "excitement" and wanting to "enjoy themselves." No one wanted to help or even be a good houseguest.

Your DH either cancels or tells them they can come stay in a hotel but makes it clear he will not be available to "host" them because he should be busy with his child so you can get enough rest.[/quote]

Living in the DC area brings its own challenges. BIL announced he was coming to visit, and then laid out an itinerary of various monuments he was hoping to visit each evening. Dumped food from our fridge to make room for his beer. [/quote]

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