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[quote=Anonymous]Sorry you're struggling with this, OP. I know what it's like to feel like everyone is blaming you for behavior you don't condone and have in fact tried for years to stop.

I hear that you say your kid doesn't qualify for SN privates, but there are privates for kids who need more support. Some are SN privates, and some are traditional privates with more openness to neurodivergent kids. I'm not sure you need to change schools, but if you decide to, these are worth seriously considering, especially as you approach middle school. I was super hesitant about this road myself for a similar kid, but it really has been a godsend.

It also infuriates me when schools seem to think we at home have some magic that can fix things. Trust me, if I did, they wouldn't need to call me on the first place! Our kid's therapist even recommended to us at one point that we keep school and home separate and don't give consequences at home for school issues (although that may vary by kid and situation). Much of my kid's school behavior is also so different from home that it's hard to really enforce something - like, he has went through a period of swearing a lot at school but didn't swear at all at home. I try to remind myself that they are reaching out to partner and approach it that way, but I do think there is an outdated idea for some teachers that the behavior is somewhat about lax parenting.[/quote]

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