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[quote=Anonymous]My guess is that this person is kind of socially aggressive generally (like it's interesting she's suddenly friends with you other group of friends outside this sport--- not malicious or anything, but she sounds like the sort of person who is good at kind of pushing her way into a social circle).

It probably just means she's very friendly which sure could mean socially aggressive but at the same time this person never did invite OP anywhere. OP invited her and then stopped inviting. So this person isn't stopping inviting OP. She just never did in the first place. It sounds like a town where people meet each other all the time. The person didn't push into OP's circle. They probably didn't know this other friend was a good friend of OP's or they thought this was a commonality between them. OP sounds very formal and easily put off my minor issues. I remember so many moms like this at birthday parties who would just be a Debbie downer about something while the birthday mom was just trying to keep the 20 kids invited safe and the party moving along. If the woman isn't mean and just didn't follow OP's protocol for manners than I just don't see this being a huge issue. Why make an awkward situation out of it? Just don't invite her again one on one. What will likely happen is that OP will be the one shut out of get togethers because she has this hang up that moms who hang out have to have all this formality with their get togethers. She sounds very young. Most moms realize they are very busy people and make forgiveness for this sort of thing or are happy to have others join in and just prioritize the fun experiences and social inclusion over the etiquette.[/quote]

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