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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If this was a man writing about his wife micromanaging him, she would be seen as a wonderful woman trying to maintain a sense of order and to keep junk out of the house and to do what she has to do to keep the house running. She would be lauded as a hero who has to put up with this husband who can't even manage simple house rules that serve to keep the house and family clean and organized and he would be degraded, called names and laughed at for being such a bad husband. [/quote]

Read her follow up post. Nothing in there has anything to do with the house or her slovenly ways. And seriously, suggesting that she scare the crap out of him to the point where he feels the need to call the police because, gee, having a homicide detective in the house will turn him around??? You're crazy.[/quote]

I am PP who says to strong arm him by leaving for a couple of days. Yep, let him call the police. This DH has clearly demonstrated that he won't go to therapy without a strong incentive. OP sounds desperate. She also does not sound like someone who wants to end her marriage. So I'm suggesting a strong arm scenario where no one actually gets hurt. Why is that crazy? You sound like you are probably divorced or perhaps never married. Solutions to such an intractable situations are rarely straightforward.[/quote]

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