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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Cheaters cheat, non-cheaters don't cheat

Is your wife character... a cheater or not.

That is your answer.[/quote]

I think this is largely true HOWEVER, I wouldn’t be so sure that we are not all capable of it under the “right” circumstances. Ie my husband is not a cheater but it’s not totally impossible that one day in a particular situation, he might not be tempted beyond his own expectations.  [/quote]

No that's not how it works. If you think that, you are a cheater who has been really good at not cheating. Congrats to you.

Non-cheaters... just never enters the realm of possibility. [/quote]

Agree with this. Huge opportunities and propositions my entire life—never succumbed —54 now. Unfortunately, spouse had a cheater dad and after swearing he saw what it did he’d never do it—had an affair 18 years in (even with lots of sex, happy at home- but midlife depression). [/quote]

I’m in a similar situation. Married for decades and had countless opportunities to cheat but never did.

One friend crossed an emotional boundary with me and I drew a line with as much empathy as I could. We are still friends but rarely text. If DH wanted to read our texts I wouldn’t care at all.

I don’t think H has ever cheated but I don’t have proof. Or I should say I have as much proof as I can get. For now.

[b]I see every year that he doesn’t trade me in for a new model (like a car) as a gift[/b].[/quote]

I find this statement incredibly peculiar.  Is there something extraordinarily appealing about this man that beautiful young women are just throwing themselves at him and he has a sure bet to upgrade from you?  Also, where are these men?  Why don’t I ever see them?

I am married.  My husband is tall, employed, and has a lovely smile, but I can’t bring myself to believe he could easily “upgrade.”  He is very much a pudgy middle aged balding man in a world FULL of pudgy middle aged balding men.[/quote]

I don’t want to hijack this thread but I will say that the reason I feel this way has absolutely nothing to do with anyone’s appearance or even income.[/quote]

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