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[quote=Anonymous]OP, as a thought exercise, what if birth control meant periodic abstinence?

I say this as someone who is open to life, and whose only recourse (under grave circumstances) would be FAM.  One of the reasons FAM brings couples closer together is because it requires mutual sacrifice and lots of communication.

Sex means bonding and babies.  What if you told your husband that you would respect his wishes, but hope he would respect yours.  Since a baby can result from sex during a fertile time, you are no longer available during times of potential fertility.  When he makes love to you, you want him to make love to ALL of you, which includes your natural, healthy fertility.

Your charting can help you learn a great deal about your body, and might make your husband appreciate how awesome sex really can be--your love for each other can lead to a new PERSON.

Babies are not possessions, acquisitions, trophies, playthings, pets, additions.  They are unique, priceless persons, gifts.  I hope you both grow closer together through this time.[/quote]

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