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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here’s something else to keep in mind: the higher they are, the harder they fall.

We all age, go thru menopause, and lose our beauty. No, being beautiful is not the panacea to a perfect life, but it DOES afford one more opportunities and, let’s face it, the world is just *nicer* to you. It’s almost like being a minor celebrity, always being admired and complimented - the dopamine hits never stop. Until they do.

Then what? There are many former beauties that cannot accept this. They are grieving hard for what they have lost. It’s truly devastating for some.[/quote]

I hate to break it to you, but not everyone loses their beauty. I’m in my 30s and I do yoga with several gorgeous 70 something women.  Obviously, 20 something men don’t see them as sex goddesses, but they are still very, very attractive. They haven’t been devastated by anything because they still turn the heads of men their age. Sorry![/quote]

My mother looks like she’s early 50s at 71 and she’s gorgeous - Maye Musk type. I’m 45 and my problem is that men who approach me in RL are too young:35-40. They think I’m mid 30s. I’m trying to find an older partner on OLD but there are very few good looking men over age 45 who still have hair, are over 5’10 and are fit. [/quote]

The true tragedy is how horrible men look around that age. There is no reason for them to let themselves go like that. [/quote]

Yes,  I had dozens of dates so can tell now from own experience. Most were very decent professional men. But in 1.5 years on OLD  I’ve only met 4 men aged 45-59 who would be sexually attractive for me enough to sleep with them. The rest were nice guys but I wouldn’t have sex  with them for all the money in the world ! I never considered myself gorgeous like my mom was at same age. But all men tell me I’m a beauty. Of course it’s a matter of where you stand relative general population in your age group.

Sexy means no feminine features like big bellies, big butts or fat necks, maintains clean scalp (not all hair present is ok - I get it men have little power over this); regularly exercising, smells nice, good dental hygiene. I dated 2 out of these 4 decent looking guys.  #3 had a lot of performance anxiety and couldn’t get it up (in his early 50s!) and #4 lied about his single status , so I ended up not sleeping with them [/quote]

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