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[quote=Anonymous]If you can stay away from your girlfriend's mom, things may go well, but when people have kids, they often think they need to rekindle the relationship and there may be attempts, dealing with her, pain, your girlfriend may excuse her actions or side with her mom against you, etc. Any major life event may spur your girlfriend to try and make it work. You may be dealing with her more than you think. Proceed with caution. One other thing: you will deal with the effects of the mom's abuse on your girlfriend. My in laws are terrible people and we don't see them. However, they have loomed large in my marriage because of the effects of abuse on my husband. It has affected a lot of things over the years in a long marriage--I really had no idea about how abuse works in someone's life. You are not out of the woods even if you go no contact, I'm sorry to say.[/quote]
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