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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Posters saying “you can’t tell the difference” between daycare and sahm kids have no idea what is actually at stake. Beyond a minor effect, it’s not actually about grades, athletics l, social skills or future criminality…. Early years childcare is about nervous system regulation. This shows up in our most intimate, private circumstances—in our sense of self-worth and ability to maintain secure attachments. All of this can be compromised even in someone who is successful and married well. You can’t tell from the outside looking in [/quote] +1 I know multiple women who stayed married to alcoholics who also abused them and their kids. They did not have their own money to walk away and/or give their kids a better life because they would have been on the street. The kids are all now very damaged adults. If no one can tell, what is the consequence exactly?[/quote] Mothers who have their own income and retirement savings and can afford to divorce their husbands if they treat them poorly. Scary, I know.[/quote][/quote]
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