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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think I have a super high sex drive, but my DH never initiates and has a tough time maintaining an erection, and I finally just stopped trying. No sex for five f*ing years. I am not happy about that. I would be perfectly happy with once a week. Even once a month, for god's sake. But never is not okay for me. Despite all this I would probably just live with it if everything else in the marriage was great. However, everything else is not great: numerous other serious issues (he is depressed, unemployed, does not help much, leaves me with the whole mental load, and is often hostile and unpleasant to the kids). And, no surprise, feeling unhappy about all this does not make me feel more attracted to him, so even if he suddenly became far more sexual, I don't think I would want sex with him anymore. We are now separated, trying to decide if we are just getting divorced. And I told him that if we are staying together, I want an open marriage. [/quote]
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