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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi, OP again.
No, he was not prescribed TRT.

I have been looking up therapists, but not sure how I am going to convince him he should leave his current one. Remember he doesn’t have an issue with the current one.

I do worry that suggesting he change will cause rock the boat too much. We’ve reached this level of relative calm and day to day things are functioning smoothly. What if it’s because he feels safe and supported and all of a sudden I tell him he should see someone else because I need more? It might feel like I’m pulling the rug out from under him.
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Is this the same therapist whose attitude is "this is how things will be, deal with it"? The one who's dismissive of any possibility of any kind of sexual relationship? I usually would say for you, the spouse, to detail your concerns to your DH's therapist (therapists can't tell you what goes on in therapy but CAN listen to your input); however, if this is that same therapist, I don't know if it would do any good to ask to give the therapist that kind of input. But you also can't stay stuck. OP, are you seeing a therapist of your own, solo, by any chance? [/quote]

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