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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel like you are not sharing enough details.

If he's had a problem with them since dating, what is the issue?  What type of "spats" do they get into?

I feel like it's entirely possible you're downplaying their awfulness.  But it's also possible your DH is a jerk himself and you're downplaying that too.  (and definitely possible that you are downplaying your role in the dysfunction).

A couple of things stick out to me - 
1.  they are elderly and he is outright refusing.  That is a pretty hard line.  Which means it was either really bad, or he is a jerk who can't suck it up for you for 3 days.  
2.  It didn't seem to occur to you to go and leave kids with him.  Do you all just do everything together, or will he be pissy if you leave 1-3 of the kids with him for 3 days?

So something doesn't quite add up.  [/quote]

Agree.

I have the latter situation. An ahole husband who pisse off everyone we stay with.  Then he gets angry when they point out big issues he caused, slips the Victim Switch and “refuses” to visit them again. 
Yet before that they said he’s not welcome in their house if he’s going to yell and argue at 8am with an old woman trying to help him use and appliance he broke. ODD much? [/quote]

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