Reply to He ordered WHAT?!? A lonely yawp to my pocket friends about my pathetic marriage

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "He ordered WHAT?!? A lonely yawp to my pocket friends about my pathetic marriage"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to ask him about it see what he says. It doesn't matter if you "don't care" anymore I'd want to know how he would handle this lying or telling the truth so you can file this away. [b]There is no way happy or unhappy I wouldn't want answers[/b] OP.

The state of most men and husbands these days are abysmal so don't feel like you are totally alone, you're not. [/quote]

Re: The bold above, yes, i agree; the OP does need answers, even though she says she doesn't care if he's doing...whatever it is he's doing.

She needs frankness and openness from him for one vital reason, her own health.

They do still have sex, rarely, but it only takes one time for him to give her an STI if he is having sex with anyone else (and only one time with someone else for him to pick up an STI to bring home). Some STIs have little to no obvious symptoms for a very long time. I hope she has tested AND gotten a follow-up test later; doctors will tell you to re-test after a certain period because some infections take a while to turn up and an initial test may not catch every infection that's there. And in her shoes, not knowing if he's just wearing and using these items for himself at home or if he's having sex with anyone else -- I would not have sex with him at all any more. She seems to have zero actual pleasure in doing so, and if there's any risk of an STI (or...pregnancy, OP?) it's just not worth it. There is no "we're doing it to keep the marriage alive" going on here.

This thread is old, though. OP, are you out there? I'm worried for your emotional and physical health. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics