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[quote=Anonymous]He sounds like a cross between a friends ex who was helpful around the house and wore headphones all of the time while with family. He eventually left for and married his asst. And a partner at my firm, who beat a hasty departure with no email announcement, as in one day he was a non equity partner and then poof. Unfortunately he was awfully unkind to his secretary, she took the abuse but she didn’t take it lying down. He started disappearing for hours at a time during the day every day, so out of curiosity she started going in and checking his computer after he left and before it went to privacy screen, his call history and notes left on his desk; he was cruising on-line and then meeting up with $20-50 an hour craig’s list ladies. When the wife called the sec would let her know he’d been out for X time, but nope, nothing on his calendar, wife figured out what he was up to, started calling everyday around the same time. She quickly realized his sex addiction had come roaring back with a vengeance, she and the sec were friendly, so she let slip that he was a sex addict. Wife gave ultimatum, treatment asap, new less stressful line of work or cut back drastically, or else. He wouldn’t comply so she called firm. The firm called in the sec., for an investigation. Secretary said I’m not sure but he does disappear every day, for hours. All of this to say. I think you know deep down your DH is hiding a big secret, one that brings him great shame. Those undies and toys are being shipped to your house because $20-50 an hour pros, while cheap enough to indulge in every day, don’t usually have fixed addresses or mailboxes. No shade here, let the man get his kink on, but sooner or later he will get tired of hiding and then what are you going to do when it’s in your face? Your future dignity is ringing the alarm bells. This isn’t security or comfort it’s a ticking time bomb. Get the proof, take advantage of his shame while he still has some and push him out the door in a way that tilts in your favor.[/quote]
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