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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is this the same OP that posted about her friend saying a certain wine sounded good and the OP bought a bottle and the friend got pissed? [/quote]

Yep that was me. Same friend too.

-Op[/quote]

PP.  I knew it when you wrote "They all keep insisting that isn’t the point and shouldn’t have tried to upstage them."

This is your friend's MO. She hints about things (putting this on the registry) then pretends she's mad that you went overboard, but she never declines the gift. I think you also tipped her too much for mailing you something? And she didn't return the money. She makes you feel bad, and then you're even more generous the next time. She's trying to make you feel ashamed, like you're the one who has to apologize to HER for buying her an incredibly generous gift, and now she has her family acting as flying monkeys. Very toxic. I am guessing that you are hosting the shower at your house, so why should she be offended by you spending the money, if she's letting you host her shower which is also something family does? You should call her bluff this time. Return the gift and give her a $20 gift card. [/quote]

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