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Reply to "DH’s loud talking, interrupting, talking over everyone…at the end of my rope "
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[quote=Anonymous]I think you have to gently point it out each time in the moment. He will not be happy. But with time, hopefully he will start to absorb. My DH did this, still has the tendencies, but he is much less defensive. I can now say, I got it the first time. You're really loud. Let other people talk. I think what made a difference was pointing out moments, after the fact, when I could show that he should have been embarrassed. He definitely doesn't want to be embarrassed. It hasn't been easy, but other than when he does that I love him. Maybe he knows that I think he is amazing, so he is working on taking the criticism. Which reminds me that I make a point of pointing out when he is amazing. And he does the same to me. [/quote]
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