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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had my youngest at 38. We have a ‘marriage fund’ for all DC. They can decide to use it for a wedding or a down payment on a house or something else. They know about it and it will be given at the time of their wedding or after 33 if they chose to do something else with that $. It will not be an enormous amount of $ but the cost of a reasonable wedding.[/quote] We don't have a "marriage fund" but we do have about $75K for each of our kids to use towards a downpayment when the time comes. We do not intend to pay for weddings because we believe that adults should pay for their own festivities. We'll likely give them each $5K towards a wedding and they can do as they wish, including eloping. If they want a big party they'll need to pay for it themselves. The parents' age is irrelevant IMO.[/quote]
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